Ruth James

Partner

Ruth is a partner and trained collaborative lawyer in the family team, based in Oxford. She specialises in complex divorce and financial matters, and disputes concerning arrangements for children, advising both married and unmarried clients.

Her work often involves an international dimension and intricate financial structures, and she is experienced in cases where allegations of coercion or controlling behaviour arise. Ruth has particular expertise in advising business owners and their spouses, especially in matters involving company valuations and sophisticated remuneration packages. She also regularly supports landowners, academics, and other professionals, or their spouses, who face unique financial and personal circumstances. Adept at handling cases concerning inherited wealth, trust structures, and the nuances of academic and professional career paths, Ruth’s clients value her discretion, insight, and ability to provide clear, strategic advice tailored to their needs and long-term goals.

Clients rely on me for clear and confident guidance through challenging circumstances, delivered with precision, discretion, and professional integrity, and I am often instructed for my legal insight, strategic approach, and composed handling of high-stakes disputes. Beyond this, my focus is on ensuring clients always feel supported and reassured, even in the most difficult times.

Ruth James, Partner

In addition, Ruth is highly experienced in complex children matters, including cases involving alienating behaviours, internal relocations within the UK, and international moves. With a sensitive, child-focused approach, she aims to ensure that the welfare of the children remains central, while guiding parents through emotionally challenging decisions. While fully prepared to litigate when necessary, Ruth is a strong advocate for constructive, solution-focused approaches and regularly promotes alternative dispute resolution where appropriate. She is a committed member of Resolution, the leading organisation for specialist family lawyers in England and Wales.

Recent work highlights

Farming family dispute

Acting for an intervenor in a complex farming dispute, navigating an entrenched family conflict and untangling intricate legal and financial arrangements within a valuable, multi-generational partnership.

High-value cross-border relocation

Representing a parent in a high-stakes, three-jurisdiction relocation case, and protecting the children’s welfare while countering destabilising tactics and managing intense cross-border legal conflict.

Coercive control financial proceedings

Supporting a spouse through financial proceedings involving coercive control, delivering steady, strategic guidance to secure a fair outcome despite sustained pressure and adversarial conduct.

Complex financial proceedings for CFO

Advising the chief financial officer of a major UK fashion group in complex financial proceedings, achieving a bespoke division of a high-value pension, tailored to the parties’ unique financial landscape.

International post-nuptial agreement

Guiding a Southern Hemisphere client through a complicated post-nuptial agreement involving international financial structures and trusts, handling cross-border legal, tax, and fiduciary issues with precision and strategic insight.